a few weeks ago i got an email to my cell phone. this guy, who i'll call taka, got my email from his friend tomo. i met tomo and his other friend in a club in 2006, and while his other friend has invited me to gatherings he's put together, i never really talked much with this tomo. so, i was surprised that he decided to hand out my email to one of his friends. basically this guy taka wanted to meet with me so he could practice speaking english. i was quite busy at that time so i said "i'm busy this week and next week, but i can meet you after that". he responds with "can i meet you tonight?", then later "can i meet you tomorrow night?". anyways, he sent a bunch of emails to my cell phone, and it was quite annoying, especially when i told him that i was busy. so, after a short period of no emails, he sent me one this morning (sat) asking if we could meet this month. i want to get this over as fast as possible, so i suggested this monday. he told me that he was going to be busy until the 21st. to which i responded "email when you're not busy and we can arrange a time to meet". this guy...is quite persistant. he asked for my phone number previously, and today he asked for it again. i told him that i don't hand out my phone number and besides that, i've had issues with people calling my cell and then hanging up. "so you don't trust me?" i don't know how much patience other people would have, but i've been pretty annoyed since the beginning. i explained to him again that i don't like to talk on the phone, and that i don't even talk with my friends on the phone...(somewhat a lie, but here i usually email my co-workers rather than talk with them on the phone). i end my email with "i'm going to study now. bye". fairly innocent, yes? apparently not. while i was at the mall, (shopping/studying) he sent me an email: "what do you mean by 'bye'"? then a few minutes later this email: "sorry for taking ur time i apparently overestimated u & i feel so sick and dizzy just by thinking such a "proud" and "impertinent" lady has been "teaching" something f@ck-off" i saw the email about an hour after he sent it. i really should have left it at that because i am not really interested in meeting this guy, but i sent him an email telling him that "bye" could mean "see you", "talk to you later", etc and that i am NOT an english teacher, and he really has no reason to be angry with me. about 30 minutes ago i got a reply where he apologized, asked to meet on the 21st and asked if i had MSN to chat. *sigh* |